Church and Marriage are more alike than you think

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My husband and I have been going to the same church for around 17 years now. We have been married for almost 20 years! Our church has had some changes recently and it has made me sit back and think, “Is this what I want for our family?”  We changed our youth minister and associate minister pretty close to the same time.  I don’t particularly like change.  I have wrestled with leaving the church or hanging in there.  Also, other things have bothered me how our church has changed things.

While I was praying about this, something came to mind.  How I feel about my church is a lot like my relationship with my marriage. When our marriage gets stagnant we change what is going on to revive it.  There are disappointments in a marriage because we are all human.  Our marriages have to have each side contribute so no one is doing all of the work.  We choose to stay with our husband and cultivate our relationship. It’s not always greener on the other side.  My husband is always there for me!

We should view our church the same way. When our church gets stagnant, pray to revive it.  When you have disappointments in how the church is going, remember that we are all human.  Everyone should contribute so not just a few are working.  Changing churches isn’t always the answer.  There will be a problem eventually with the new church.  My church is always there for me!

When comparing the two I realized how precious both are to me.  My husband and church family are my support system.  I encourge you to find a church family to be with you through your ups and your downs.

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You are perfect to God!

These days Facebook makes us feel like we can’t live up to what everybody else has or does.  Facebook seems to cause us to become jealous of others lives.  I know that I have felt that I don’t make enough money or look as good as someone because of my weight gain.  It’s a never-ending cycle.  I am here to tell you, please don’t feel that way anymore!  God has shown me and continues to show me that He loves me!  He reminds me of this in Psalm 139:13&14 (NIV)  For you created my inmost being: you knit me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well. God made us in His image.  That is what makes us special, not because of what we have or what we look like.  Focus on the good qualities that you have.  Make a list on an index card and place the card on your bathroom mirror.  When you are getting ready in the bathroom, look at your lists and say them out loud to yourself.  Include: I am worthy, beautiful, dependable, loving, caring, etc… God wants you to read the Bible to get encouraged.  Try to not get on Facebook everyday.  Instead read your Bible and see how much better you will feel about yourself. Remember that God wants you to love yourself as much as He loves you!

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After the Storm

Hurricane Matthew was no joke.  We were so scared and stayed up all night because trees were falling on our house. Thank you God that no one was hurt! The trees were tearing up our roof while my husband and I were praying hard all night long.  We did so much to prepare for the storm.  Why don’t we as Christians, spend much time and energy preparing for our personal storms.  When we have hurricanes we spend a lot of time gathering things together to keep us safe.  God wants us spending time with Him in the Word and on our knees.   I have started kneeling at my bed again to be submissive to God.  It seems simple but really powerful.  You should try it sometime because it is a humbling experience!

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The Storm ends with a Rainbow

The Storm ends with a Rainbow

I don’t live too far from Savannah, GA. Hurricane Matthew hit us pretty hard.  It damaged our house and it was scary to wait it out. This storm reminded me of life. We don’t know exactly when a problem is coming or how hard it will affect us. The only thing I can count on is that God is my anchor. When I was 17 I became pregnant. My parents were so disappointed. Being a minister’s daughter put me under the microscope. My life was a whirlwind! I found out who my friends were and believe me it wasn’t many.  Adults at my church let me know how disappointed they were of me. I had to find my strength (anchor) through God and my family. It was a lonely time, but looking back I can see where God took care of me. I learned that we as Christians need to be there for people in time of need with loving arms. Teach them what the Bible says about what they are doing in a loving way. The good thing is that the storm doesn’t last forever. It does end in calmness and gets better. Now I can proudly say, that my son loves our God just as much as I do. I am very proud of him and can’t imagine life without him. My son is my rainbow at the end of the storm!!!

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God’s Not Dead

My husband and I were watching “God’s Not Dead” movie last night. It reminded me of my own losses. We logically know that God allows bad things to happen. He doesn’t cause them to happen. Sometimes it’s still hard not to feel mad at God because we don’t understand why. I have lost a set of twins before they were born. I still wonder about them. I know God allowed them to be taken for a reason that’s beyond my understanding. I gain comfort in knowing they are in heaven waiting for ME! God is using me now to help others who are going through the same thing. I named them and am excited to meet them one day. We will be reunited again forever! Being mad at God doesn’t do anything but hurt you. As long as sin is in this world and we have free will, we will suffer more loss and pain. Something else to think about is that one day God WILL destroy Satan and our pain will be NO more!!! Justice will be served!

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Trust in God all of the time!

I was reading my Bible the other day and came across where Jesus fed the five thousand in John 6.  It’s a good children’s story, but it’s more than that.   When I feel that a task is impossible, I turn to this story.  We tend to limit what God does in us by assuming what is and is not possible.  Is there some impossible task that you believe that God wants you to do?  Don’t hesitate anymore.  Go for it!  God can do miraculous things, so trust Him to provide for you.  This blog was my impossible!  God reached out to me through others and cheered me on to start writing.  I felt that I didn’t know (and still don’t know) enough about computers to start this. I am navigating my way with God’s help.  I hope you join me through this journey!

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